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Rebecca AlleyneFamily Lawyer and Family Mediator in Victoria, BC

I am a family lawyer and accredited family law mediator based in Victoria, BC. For more than 20 years I have helped families across British Columbia navigate separation in a way that is fair, respectful, and forward-looking.

20+ Years in Family Law 1,000+ Families Guided 95% Resolution Rate
Rebecca Alleyne, family lawyer and accredited family mediator in Victoria BC
My Story

Why I became a family mediator

Early in my career I practiced as a divorce lawyer and spent many years working in courtrooms. Over time I became increasingly aware of how high-conflict legal processes affected my clients and their children. The adversarial approach often made separation more expensive, more stressful, and more damaging to long-term family relationships.

I wanted to help people move through separation efficiently while still being able to communicate, co-parent, and show up together for their children over time. That realization led me to change direction and focus my practice entirely on family mediation.

Working with a professional to resolve your separation should bring clarity and peace of mind, not additional stress.

Since then I have guided more than 1,000 families in British Columbia through family mediation, and on average 95% of my mediations reach a full agreement. My work focuses on helping people create clear, workable plans for parenting, support, and property so they can move forward with stability and confidence. Whether families are co-parenting children or separating without them, the goal is the same.

How I Work

My approach as a family mediator

Over the years I have refined a structured mediation process that ensures every separation addresses all of the issues that need to be resolved, in a sensible order, without anything being missed. My approach ensures that people understand the legal framework, the financial details, and the key decisions they need to make, so agreements are informed, practical, and professionally drafted.

As both an accredited family mediator and a practicing family lawyer, I provide legal information throughout the discussion. I explain how BC family law applies to what you are deciding, identify the calculations and disclosure needed to decide well, and draft the final Separation Agreement myself.

I also developed family law software called Divii to make this process faster, clearer, and more accessible. It runs underneath every file I work on, so you can see parenting schedules, support calculations, and property division take shape on screen as we talk. Learn more about how my mediation process works.

Qualifications

Experience and credentials

Clients often ask what qualifies someone to mediate a separation in British Columbia. Here is my background.

Called to the BC Bar, 2006Member, Law Society of British Columbia
Accredited Family Law MediatorAccredited by the Law Society of British Columbia
Registered Roster Mediator, Mediate BCDesignations in Family (Parenting) and Family (Property)
Family Dispute Resolution ProfessionalAs defined under the BC Family Law Act
Hundreds of hours of advanced trainingOngoing mediation education and professional development
Law degree, University of VictoriaJuris Doctor
Bachelor of Commerce, University of CalgaryFinancial grounding for support and property work
More than 12 years mediating exclusivelyFamily mediation has been my sole focus
Choosing Your Mediator

Am I the right family mediator for you?

Not every separation needs a senior lawyer-mediator, and I would rather you were matched well than simply booked. Here is how I think about it.

Work with me if

  • Your finances are complex: a business, pensions, multiple properties, or significant excluded property
  • There is meaningful conflict or a power imbalance between you
  • You want legal experience in the room, guiding every decision as it is made
  • Your situation has unusual legal questions that need answering before you can decide
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Another path may fit better if

  • You can do most of the work yourselves but want help closing the gaps: Divii Mediated pairs your Divii file with pre-mediation meetings and two hours of targeted mediation with me, and I draft your full Separation Agreement
  • You would rather work at your own pace: Divii guides you through it yourself, with Divii Mediated available for anything unresolved
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Get Started

Book a pre-mediation meeting with Rebecca

Before your mediation, we meet for a short pre-mediation session. This meeting gives us a chance to go over the process, answer your questions, and make sure you feel prepared and supported in the joint mediation session. Each of you attends your own.

Zoom

Pre-Mediation Meeting

60 minutes, online
$300
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Telephone

Pre-Mediation Meeting

60 minutes, by phone
$300
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Not ready to commit to a mediator yet? A free 30-minute consultation will help you work out which path fits your situation, at no cost.

Next Step

Let's get you moving forward

Mediation can turn conflict into a respectful, forward-looking plan. My role is to guide you through it with clarity, skill, and compassion.

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