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Our Family Mediators in Victoria, BC

Victoria Mediation is a family mediation practice founded and led by Rebecca Alleyne, a family lawyer and an accredited family law mediator with the Law Society of British Columbia, with more than 20 years in family law. Our family mediators help separating couples in Victoria, BC and across British Columbia work through parenting, support, and property decisions using one structured process, at the level of support that fits each family.

20+Years in Family Law

1,000+Families Guided

95%Resolution Rate

3Levels of Support

The Team

Meet our family mediators

Every mediation here follows the same structured process and the same values: clear communication, informed decision-making, and respectful problem-solving. Rebecca is currently taking on all new mediations while our associate mediator completes further studies. Every Separation Agreement is drafted or reviewed by a senior family lawyer.

Founder & Senior Lawyer-Mediator

Rebecca Alleyne

Family Lawyer & Accredited Family Mediator

Rebecca practiced as a family and divorce lawyer before moving to mediation full time more than 12 years ago. She has mediated for over 1,000 families, drafts every Separation Agreement the practice produces, and built the structured process the whole firm runs on.

Best for complex finances, higher conflict, or when you want legal experience in the room.

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Associate Mediator · Returning Early 2027

Isabella Paul

Rostered Family Mediator, Mediate BC

Isabella was trained directly by Rebecca in the same structured framework and mediates under her professional oversight. She is taking time away from mediation to complete further studies and will return to the practice in early 2027.

Not currently taking new mediations.

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Our Origin

Why we practice family mediation

Rebecca began her career as a family and divorce lawyer, advocating for one person at a time within the traditional adversarial system. Over time it became clear how inefficient that system can be. Despite the fact that most separations require the same core steps, there was no consistent process. Each file was built from scratch, which often stretched matters out for many months and sometimes years.

The human cost was just as clear. Prolonged legal battles left many clients emotionally depleted and financially exhausted, even when their legal issues were eventually resolved. Families were looking for something different: a more human, organized, and collaborative way to work through separation.

Most separations need the same core steps. So we built a process that follows them, every time.

That is what Victoria Mediation exists to provide: a structured family mediation process that simplifies difficult discussions, supports shared understanding, and helps families move forward with clarity and confidence. Learn more about how family mediation works.

Experience & Oversight

Experience and professional oversight

Victoria Mediation brings more than 20 years of family law experience to its work as family mediators, including over 12 years practicing exclusively in family mediation. In that time Rebecca Alleyne has acted as a family law mediator for more than 1,000 families in Victoria, BC and across British Columbia, helping them work through parenting, support, and property decisions in a structured and informed way. That depth of experience is what allows the process to anticipate common challenges and ensure every separation mediation addresses all of the issues that need to be resolved.

Because Rebecca is both an accredited family law mediator and a practicing family lawyer, professional oversight runs through every file. We explain how BC family law applies to the issues being discussed, identify the information and calculations needed to make informed decisions, and ensure that agreements are grounded in legal reality. Families move through mediation knowing the process is guided by experienced family mediators and supported by clear legal information.

Rebecca Alleyne walking a client through calculations on screen during mediation

Explaining how BC family law applies to the decisions on the table.

Levels of Support

One structured process, three levels of support

As the practice has grown, we have expanded the ways families can access support depending on their needs and circumstances. Some people work directly with Rebecca from start to finish. For those who want a more self-directed option, Rebecca built family law software called Divii that helps couples create clear, legally sound separation agreements at a lower cost. And Divii Mediated sits in between: Rebecca meets each person first, the couple completes their Divii file, and two hours of targeted mediation settle what remains. Every path leads to the same destination.

Self-Guided

Divii

Work through parenting schedules, support calculations, and property division online at your own pace, with Divii Mediated available for anything unresolved.

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Divii Plus Mediation

Divii Mediated

Pre-mediation with Rebecca, then your Divii file together, then two hours of targeted mediation, with your full Separation Agreement drafted by Rebecca.

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Senior Lawyer-Mediator

Mediation with Rebecca

Work directly with Rebecca, with legal experience in the room and the agreement drafted by her.

Meet Rebecca ›

Making the Choice

Choosing the right path

Choosing a family mediator can shape your entire separation experience. Beyond credentials, it matters that you work with someone whose approach, communication style, and level of experience feel right for you. You want a mediator who can explain the process clearly, help you understand how the law applies, and keep discussions focused and productive, especially when emotions run high.

Every family is different, and there is not a single right fit for everyone. Some people want a senior family lawyer-mediator in the room from start to finish. Others prefer to do the groundwork themselves in Divii and bring in a mediator only for what remains. Our role is to make sure that whichever path you choose, you feel supported, informed, and confident as you work through important decisions about your family's future.

If you are not sure which is right for you, take our two-minute quiz or book a free consultation and we will help you decide before you commit to anything.

In Person and Online

Serving families in Victoria, BC and across British Columbia

We work with families in Victoria and throughout British Columbia, providing family mediation that is grounded in BC family law and tailored to the realities of each family's situation. Many mediations take place in person at our Oak Bay office, and we also work with families across the province through online mediation when distance, schedules, or comfort make meeting remotely the better choice.

Wherever you are located, the focus stays the same: a structured, respectful mediation process that helps you work through parenting and financial decisions with clarity and confidence, supported by clear legal information and a consistent approach.

Next Step

Let's find the right path for you

Book a free 30-minute consultation, and we will walk through your situation and recommend the right level of support. No cost, no commitment.

Book a Free Consultation Take the 2-Minute Quiz Already decided? Book your pre-mediation meeting