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Clear, practical writing on separation in British Columbia: what a Separation Agreement covers, what mediation costs, how child support is calculated, and how to protect your children from conflict. Written by Rebecca Alleyne, family lawyer and accredited family mediator.

Mediation Process

How Much Does Family Mediation Cost in BC?

Average rates, what drives the total, and how to keep costs down. Plus what to do if you cannot afford it.

December 16, 2025  ·  14 min read
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Mediation Process

Why Hiring a Family Lawyer-Mediator Gives You the Most Efficient Separation Process

A non-lawyer mediator writes a Memorandum of Understanding, which then goes to a lawyer. That handoff is where cost and delay come from.

December 10, 2025  ·  6 min read
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Separation Agreements

Separating as a Common Law or Married Couple in BC

The rights are largely the same. The deadlines are not. What common law partners need to know about the two-year limitation period.

November 22, 2025  ·  5 min read
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Mediation Process

Can Mediation Work for Your Family?

Conflict does not disqualify you. Neither does a complicated balance sheet. The real barrier is something else entirely.

November 16, 2025  ·  6 min read
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Child Support

Can You Resolve Child Support in Family Mediation?

The Guidelines give a clear roadmap. Seeing the calculations update on screen is what makes the conversation easy.

November 13, 2025  ·  3 min read
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Separation Agreements

Separation Agreement vs. Divorce in BC: What's the Difference and What You Need

A separation agreement deals with everything. A divorce deals with one thing. Here is the order they go in.

November 10, 2025  ·  5 min read
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Co-Parenting

Why Choose Family Mediation: Lessons from 'The True Costs of Divorce'

Why I left law practice for mediation, and what a TED Talk about the true cost of divorce gets right.

October 1, 2024  ·  3 min read
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Communication

Building Trust as Co-Parents

Trust is not rebuilt through big gestures. It is built one marble at a time.

May 19, 2020  ·  3 min read
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Co-Parenting

How to Protect Your Kids in Separation and Divorce

Separation does not mess up your kids. Conflict does. That distinction puts you back in control.

May 19, 2020  ·  3 min read
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