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The four steps to prepare

To be successful at mediation you have to gather the right information and do the right thinking. Before you are ready to make decisions, you need to know what you have, what your options are, what you want out of all this, and how you will get there.

Two thingsAre the minimum we ask
Four stepsIf you want to do it properly
Your own paceOver the weeks before

The minimum we ask is that you fill in our information form with Divii, which I have already sent you by email, and upload your supporting documents to the Sync drive. Everything here goes further than that, and it is the difference between a session that decides things and a session that gathers paperwork.

Why It Is Worth It

The information is the easy half

Most people arrive having gathered their documents and thought very little about what they actually want. That is the wrong way round. Documents can be chased during the process; the thinking cannot be done for you, and without it the day becomes a negotiation over positions rather than a plan for your family.

Where there is sketchy information to work with, people cannot assess proposals, cannot weigh what a compromise is worth, and cannot commit to an outcome.

Still Deciding

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