Common Primary Parenting Schedules

Primary parenting arrangements are a common and healthy choice for many families, especially when one parent is better positioned to take on most of the day to day care. In a primary parenting situation, the children live mainly in one home and spend less than 40 percent of their time with the other parent. This does not diminish the importance of the other parent or the strength of their relationship with the children. Instead, it reflects what will give the children the most stability and routine based on the realities of your two households.

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In mediation, I help parents look at the bigger picture of their lives and their children’s needs. Primary parenting often makes sense when work schedules do not align, when parents live farther apart, or when the children benefit from having one consistent home base during the school week. The other parent still plays a meaningful role, and together we create a parenting schedule that supports ongoing connection, predictability, and opportunities for quality time.

 

We spend time talking about what your children need at their current ages and stages, how transitions between homes should work, and how to manage communication so both parents stay informed. I also help you think through longer blocks of parenting time during school breaks, holidays, and special occasions. Clear planning helps everyone understand expectations and reduces conflict over time.

 

My goal is to guide you toward a primary parenting plan that feels grounded, practical, and supportive of your children’s long term wellbeing. Each parent’s role matters, and a thoughtful, well structured plan helps you both continue to show up for your children in ways that feel steady and secure.